SIBU – What you could ever hope for cannot be compared to what God has in store, Fr Thomas Connors will tell you that.
Never in his wildest dreams did this gentle soft-spoken Irishman think that he would end up living in a land where it is always summer and amongst the most friendly people on earth.
But for God, nothing is impossible and he delights in giving pleasant surprises to his children who trusts in Him.
God plucked young Thomas from cold Ireland, and deposited him in far-away Borneo, among the Melanaus of peaceful coastal Dalat, the nomadic Penans in the deepest reaches of interior Sarawak, to the diverse populace of the busling town of Sibu.
“As a schoolboy in cold Ireland, I dreamed of living in a far-away land where it was always summer,” said the now 76-year-old who will be celebrating his 50th year as a Mill Hill missionary priest in July this year.
The Sacred Heart parish which he is currently serving as assistant priest is gearing up preparation to celebrate his Golden Ordination Jubilee with a Thanksgiving Mass at the Cathedral on 3.7.2013 at 5:30pm followed by Grand Dinner Reception at 7:15pm the same evening at Kingwood Hotel.
It is going to be a double celebration to also honor the 55th Ordination Jubilee & 80th Birthday of Rev. Father Ferdinand Vergeer, another long serving Mill Hill priest here.
Fr Connors has been serving the people in Sarawak for almost entirely all his priestly years, including 33 years in the interior and 13 years in Sibu division, which was also a dream come true for his mother Mary Kenny. His father Richard was a farmer and Fr Connors is the eldest of their four children.
He said, “At home my mother used to read parts of the missionary magazine, ‘The Far East’, to us and showed us pictures of missionary priests working in such far-away places. She would ask us whether we would like to work as missionaries in such places.”
One day at the end of his Primary 6 school year, a Mill Hill missionary priest visited his school and asked whether any of the boys would like to become missionaries in far-away lands.
“A few of my best friends, classmates, put up their hands, so I put up mine too. We were very excited.”
The priest visited their homes that afternoon.
“My parents were very happy, especially my mother who told him that she prayed at Mass every morning that one of her sons would become a priest.”
In that visit, everything was arranged for the boy to enter the Mill Hill Minor Seminary at the beginning of the new school year.
Back in school next day, the boy was shocked to discover that he was the only one accepted to enter the Seminary.
“It was heartbreaking to lose all my classmates, but the prospect of going to a far-away land where it was always summer helped to overcome that loss,” recalled Fr Connors.
After his priestly ordination at Mill Hill, London, on 7th July 1963, Fr Connors was posted to Kuching Diocese in the Borneo half of Malaysia in Southeast Asia. The first two years he taught in a school in Dalat after which he spent a short period in Sarikei at the end of 1965.
Early in 1966 Fr Connors was appointed to the parish of Song, which then included Kapit and Belaga – “the most extensive parish in the Diocese of Kuching and more than half the size of Ireland,” he tells his folks back home.
“I was engaged in primary evangelisation and pastoral work among the many tribal groups in that vast area : the Ibans, Kayans, Kenyahs, Kejamans, Sekapans, Bukitans, Ukits and Punans, among others. I have most wonderful memories of my 33 years in that vast hinterland of Borneo for the next 33 years,” he said.
“I well remember the times when Bishop Anthony Lee from the next (Miri) diocese came over the mountains with his spirited Seminar teams to set our widespread Catholic communities on fire with the Charismatic Movement’s Life in the Spirit Seminars,” continued Fr Connors.
“I remember the several days of very difficult travelling into the far interior to reach the nomadic Penans.”
And he thought he had finally brought the Gospel to the ends of the earth.
“When I asked the headman of the farthest inland settlement what it felt like to live at the ends of the earth, I was quickly cut down to size when he let me know that we had just reached the centre of the world, not the end of the earth.”
There were many unforgettable events in his missionary life, including this episode of wild boar hunting.
Once on visiting a very large Kenyah settlement after a two-day journey up the Balleh River , all the menfolk had gone far into the jungle in search of expensive fragrant heartwood, Fr Connors reminisced. The women had to fend for themselves.
That evening all the young ladies held a meeting to divide into four hunting groups, about 15 to each group. They invited Fr Connors to join the wild boar hunt next day.
“I joined those going down river. Each lady held a spear with a sheathed sword tied round her waist. As we rounded a river bend a large number of wild boar out at the tip of a long stretch of gravel bed ready to swim to the opposite bank, bolted back as soon as they saw us. They just missed our boat as it ran onto the gravel bed.”
“The women and their many dogs shot from the boat after the wild boar with such speed that I was left sitting dumbfounded, mouth wide open. With the driver I followed the boar chase by boat down river guided by the jungle orchestra of yelping dogs, squealing wild boar and screaming Amazons for quite a distance.
“Finally we heard them cheering as their dogs surrounded a large number of boar. They speared 14 of them. My role in the boar chase was to help carry the boar carcasses back to the boat, leaving heavy boar heads and legs behind,” he related, the memory still fresh in his mind.
Fr Connors was stationed at Kapit until 1999 when he was transferred to Sacred Heart Cathedral, Sibu. At the beginning of 1990, Song, Kapit and Belaga became separate parishes.
From there he did pastoral work in the Sekuau, Tamin and Selangau area, these places now made collectively into the separate parish of Selangau. He continues to work among the mixed communities of Sibu at Sacred Heart Cathedral and in longhouse communities in this area as well.
“After such experiences in the wilds of the interior, it was then a total sea-change to be transferred to town life at Sacred Heart Cathedral where I have been for the past 13 years,” he stated.
At first he felt like a fish out of water but now Fr Connors is at home in every home here.
“I take this golden opportunity to thank my Lord God for having saved me from the cruel Irish weather and placed me in the land of eternal summer among the most wonderful people on the face of the earth, whether it be the well-to-do Chinese here in Sibu or the nomadic Penans in the far interior.”
Fr Connors is filled with gratitude for the wonders his God has done in his life, in his own words “giving thanks for this amazing vocation which He has given to me and can never stop thanking Him for it.”
He exults: “Looking back over the last 50 years, I realize that in my wildest dreams I could never have imagined a more wonderful calling than this missionary life in Southeast Asia that the good Lord had planned out for me.
“He plucked me out from the tiny place where I was born and placed me in this beautiful land.”
Fr Connors considers it “my greatest privilege to have been allowed to serve all those peoples and help them along the road to Heaven.”
‘No eye has seen, no ear has heard,
and no mind has imagined
what God has prepared
for those who love Him.‘ (1 Corinthians 2:9)
The ordinand before the bishop |
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Participants at a ‘Life in the Spirit Seminar’ led by Bishop Anthony Lee having a longhouse verandah meal at Sambop Kenyah longhouse in Ulu Belaga. Fr Thomas Connors is at 2nd left. |
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Long Singut, Ulu Balleh, Kapit folk bidding Fr Thomas Connors farewell after his pastoral visit there. It was with this longhouse people that he went on the wild pig hunt. |
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A nomadic Penan community in the farthest reaches of Belaga area very happy after their baptism. |
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Fr Thomas Connors in his younger days |
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Fr Thomas Connors in his younger days |
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Fr Thomas Connors blessing some religious articles for a parishioner |
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Fr Thomas Connors blessing a young girl |
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Fr Thomas Connors |